Monday, August 8, 2011
Feeling depressed and worthless need someone to talk too?
Sweetie... growing up is hard. And you have to remember, your parents are people too. They make mistakes, and they don't always know what is best for you. But I bet they don't hate you and they aren't ignoring you. They are probably just afraid to disappoint you. They might not be able to support you in all of your dreams and desires financially and/or emotionally, but they still love you and are doing what they can. Being a single mom is tough, b/c on top of raising a child, they are trying to live their life. They have bills and mortgage, and insurance, and food, and gas and the list goes on. While worrying about day to day life, there's also concern for the big world and the deployed soldiers and hunger and poverty etc. The list of things to worry about doesn't end. Take a deep breath and sit down with your mom. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you feel left out, that you feel like she's not listening. I made the mistake of not telling my mom how I felt and it took me 8 years to get to a place where I can really talk to her, and yet its still something I'm working on. Let her know that you love her, and that these dreams aren't silly, but actually something you want to do for yourself, and you need her help. Tell her you are bothered by your teeth, and it would mean the world to you if you could have braces; and that braces pay off in the long run. I promise you it's going to be okay and that you'll be able to handle it and you'll make it through. it's not easy, all the way around, but don't forget you aren't the only one struggling. Talking to your counselor is a great start, and like I said, you should also talk to your mom again about how you feel. The more communication you have , the better the relationship. Don't give up; you've got you're whole life ahead of you, and if you want it bad enough, you will find your way to follow your dreams, (as cheesy as that may sound, it's true)
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